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高层次的父母，从不在家长群里做这3件事，孩子也更受老师喜爱

发布日期：2024-08-22 03:15:50编辑：网络收集

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家长群里的家长们，真的有这么奇葩吗？

最近追了一部家庭教育题材的电视剧——《欢乐家长群》！文章开头我列举的种种行为，在这部电视剧中都展现的淋漓尽致。

剧中家长们的种种行为，虽然被一些网友评价为过于夸张、不够真实。但作为一名小学三年级孩子的家长，现实中欢乐家长群中的家长，我可以毫不犹豫地说，这绝非夸大其词。

实际上，现实生活中的家长们在某些方面的行为，往往比剧中描绘的还要过分和极端！这些行为，如果仔细归纳，大致可以分为以下四类：

1）过度炫耀和显摆

过度炫耀与显摆，是底层次家长在家长群中最常见的不当行为之一。

这种行为主要表现为：家长在群内过度展示自己的财富、地位或孩子的成就，以此来获取其他家长的关注和认可，提升自己的存在感。

比如，我所在的家长群，每逢寒暑假的时候，就经常有那么几个家长，在群内有意无意的晒自家孩子四处旅游、吃大餐、去各种游乐园玩的照片。

再比如，还有些家长会在家长群中，频繁地分享孩子在学校取得的各种荣誉和奖项，如“我家孩子数学竞赛又得奖了”、“我家宝贝的作文被刊登在校刊上了”等。

总的来说，就是强调自己的家庭经济实力，高学历，高职业成就等方面的优势，希望通过这些获得他人的羡慕和尊重，提升自己的存在感！

全然不知，自己这种低层次的行为，会破坏家长群的和谐氛围，导致其他家长产生心理不平衡和嫉妒情绪。同时，孩子也可能因此受到不良影响，学会攀比和虚荣，忽视自己真正的成长和发展。

因此，为了家长群的和谐，以及孩子们的健康成长，我们应该把孩子的成长放在首位，树立正确的教育观，价值观，不攀比、不炫耀。营造支持和包容的家长群氛围，让孩子在爱与理解中茁壮成长。

2）无理指责与攻击

最新的调查数据显示：近年来，低层次家长在家长群中，对他人进行无理指责和攻击的现象尤为突出。

之前曾看过一则新闻报道，说的是某市一位小学三年级的学生家长，因为英语作业的问题，在班级群内向英语老师寻求帮助。

但由于是周末，老师未能及时回复，于是这位家长便在家长群里，发布了一段包含粗俗言辞的语音，对老师进行辱骂，指责老师布置的作业不合理，并声称自己不懂英语，无法辅导孩子。

其他家长劝他不要侮辱老师，他不但不听，反而越骂越带劲了！

后来，有记者来到这个学校调查，了解清楚情况后，这项作业并没强制要求每个孩子完成。并且

作业形式可选择线上APP完成，也可以选择在专门的“答疑群”中向老师寻求帮助。

细心观察，我们会发现，生活中总有一些家长因一些琐碎事情，比如，怀疑孩子在学校遭受不公、对老师教学方法不满等。

而在家长群里对老师或其他家长展开无理的攻击，公开发表不满言论。这种行为的背后，常常反映了家长内心的焦虑和对教育环境的不信任。

家长攻击性的言论，不仅令老师受伤和失望，更可能影响其对孩子的教育态度，导致老师不敢再对孩子进行必要的引导和管教。

而对于孩子来说，长期暴露在这样的家庭氛围和教育环境中，他们可能变得自卑、孤僻，甚至叛逆，难以融入学校和社会。

所以，为了孩子的健康成长，我们必须树立正确的家校合作观念，尊重并信任老师及其他家长的专业性和意见。

面对孩子在学校教育过程中出现的问题，应摒弃封闭和攻击性的心态，以开放、包容和合作的态度与老师和其他家长进行积极沟通，共同探索解决方案。

3）拍老师的马屁

提起家长在家长群里拍老师马屁这件事，相信现实生活中，每个家长都看到过，并且很多家长还都拍过老师的马屁！

还是拿我所在的家长群举例来说吧，每当女儿班主任老师，在家长群里发布一条需要家长配合工作的消息。

群里的家长们便如同接到紧急任务般，不遗余力身心投入地忙碌起来，不知道的还以为是老师布置的是多么重要的任务，当然也包括我在内。

当任务完成后，我们这些家长便在群里竞相表现，不仅毫无怨言，反而竞相讨好，老师一旦有所回应，群里家长便纷纷发出类似“老师，您辛苦了！”“非常感谢老师！”之类恭维感谢的话。

虽然是感谢的话，但对老师而言，或许是个甜蜜的负担，同时也会导致其他家长在跟进与不跟进之间犹豫，导致其他家长感到不适或尴尬，破坏家长群内的和谐氛围。

此外，也可能会让老师产生过度自信或依赖，忽视自身工作中的不足，影响教育质量的提升。

所以，作为家长，我们应当学会独立思考，理性对待老师的要求，避免盲目跟风和过度讨好。

【最后写给家长们的话】

家长群，作为现代教育中老师与家长沟通的重要平台，不仅承载着信息传递的功能，更在一定程度上展现了家长的素质和修养。

在这个群里，每位家长的言行举止都可能成为其他家长和老师的关注焦点，如果你言行举止不太得体，不仅让老师和其他家长感到不舒服，还可能影响到自己孩子的形象和成长。

作为孩子的第一任教育者，家长的言行将深刻影响孩子的价值观和行为习惯。因此，我们必须以身作则，为孩子树立良好的榜样。

为了维护家长群的和谐氛围和家校关系的融洽，我们应该注重提升自身的修养和沟通技巧。在发言前，务必三思而后行，确保自己的言论既得体又富有建设性。同时，我们也应该尊重他人的观点，学会倾听和包容不同的声音。

所以，作为家长，我们一定要注重提升自身的修养和沟通技巧，切记在家长群里发言时一定要三思而后行，尽量避免发布以上破坏班级和谐，家校关系，孩子成长的言论。

因为只有这样，我们才能共同为孩子的健康成长创造一个良好的教育环境，让孩子接受到更好的教育，更健康快乐地成长！

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