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别让仪式教育成缺憾，6件小事构建家庭仪式感，治愈孩子的一生

发布日期：2024-08-19 06:09:28编辑：网络收集

生活中的仪式感究竟有多重要？美国亚特兰大日报曾做过一项社会调查，发现一些仪式所带给孩子的幸福感，远超物质满足，甚至大于学业或事业上的成功！

那什么是仪式感？从定义来看，是指在特定场合或活动中，人们根据传统、惯例或个人习惯所采用的一系列形式化的行为和表达，以示对这种场合或活动的尊重、认同的体验。

仪式感是一种强烈的心理暗示，赋予平淡生活以特别的意义。它可能是生日或节日时父母精心准备的礼物，也可能是日常生活中某些小场景等。事虽小，却能给孩子带来极大的安全感与幸福感！

前不久，我侄女一大早打电话给我，哭得那叫一个伤心欲绝！我安抚老半天，才听她慢慢道出原委：

原来孩子前一天生日，我哥嫂都忘了，还是孩子让爷爷打电话提醒。刚好哥嫂那天外出办事，电话里答应了孩子会早点回来给她过生日。

可结果那天忙到很晚，回去时已买不到蛋糕和礼物，而且到家时孩子已经等得睡着了，便没叫醒她。谁知孩子次日醒来嚎啕大哭，跟亲人长辈投诉了一圈，还与父母冷战了好几天！

孩子为何会这么在意过生日？其实孩子所图的，不过是一场有爱的仪式而已！

事实上，很多中国父母没有意识到仪式感的重要性。中国青年报有社会调查结果显示，约61.5%的人认为家庭仪式感越来越淡，这意味着：许多中国家庭缺乏【仪式教育】。

那么，我们该如何对孩子进行仪式教育？又如何构建属于自己的家庭仪式感？其实家长不需要做什么轰轰烈烈的大事，只需日常生活中关注一些小细节，赋予它们一些仪式，一切便有了特殊意义！

家庭的仪式感，理应带有家的味道，是一种幸福的传承，也是亲子之间最美好的回忆。构建家庭仪式感，莞妈个人觉得可以从以下这6件小事做起：

带孩子感受各节日的民俗

很多人觉得如今传统节日的味道越来越淡了，在孩子眼里可过可不过。以往我们逢年过节才能享受穿新衣、吃美食等童年快乐，在现在这个物质丰富的年代，对孩子来说已没太大意义了。

但节日所有仪式感都是父母给的，如果我们自己都不重视，孩子又如何能感受得到当中意义呢？既然新衣美食已不足以让孩子有仪式感，那不如带他们体验更多的民俗活动吧！

过年带孩子买年货、逛庙会、贴对联、放烟花等；元宵节和孩子一起做元宵、赏花灯，端午节包粽子、做香囊；中秋节赏月亮、吃月饼等等。凡是与节日有关的民俗，都可以带孩子尝试和感受。

特殊日子应有专属的仪式

比如孩子的生日给他举办一个生日小聚会，准备一份礼品，写一封信，给他制造一个惊喜等等。再比如每年大年初一拍一张全家福，记录每个新年伊始全家人的新面貌，作为一份珍贵的留藏！

还有夫妻俩的结婚纪念日，不仅可以两人独享温馨甜美的时光，也可以带着孩子一起过，并向这位小听众讲讲你们的相遇相知到结婚生宝宝的幸福历程，孩子也会送上一份最诚心的祝福！

属于孩子的重要活动务必参加

孩子成长过程中有许多关键的活动，比如孩子第一次上学，第一次上舞台表演，毕业典礼、18岁成人礼等等，每一次都是人生的重要节点，值得你郑重出席并带给孩子最大的底气。

我家孩子入小学第一天，我一路尾随他，见证他信心满满地完成新生挑战，最终成为一名合格的小学生。事后，我还发了个小视频（引来十万网友围观），以此宣布孩子从此走上新的人生阶段！

每天一个温暖的拥抱

著名的教育家孙云晓曾经说过：一个孩子一天需要4次拥抱，才能存活；8次拥抱才能维持；16次拥抱才能成长。而一个没有被父母拥抱过的孩子，心理上可能多少会存在一些问题。

要知道，拥抱的背后是给予和接纳，这是孩子与父母培养安全依恋的基础，也是亲子之间的情感联结。所以无论如何，每天至少要拥抱一下孩子，让他知道，在这个世界上，总有人爱着他！

为孩子成长留下美好的记录

人工智能的时代，让我们有条件为孩子记录下成长的点点滴滴。比如，与新生宝宝第一次见面，第一次理发，第一次露出笑容，第一次爬行，第一次走路，第一次过生日……

很多家长都有“偷拍”娃的习惯，想来都是为了留住孩子成长中那些幸福的时光。同时也希望孩子长大以后，能通过这些照片，回忆起过往美好的童年和快乐的岁月。

定期开家庭会议

家庭会议是家庭仪式感中最值得做的事情之一。因为它不仅给孩子提供了学习、申诉、沟通和解决问题的机会，还能让孩子感受更多的爱和家庭向心力，以及自己肩负的责任。

至于开家庭会议的环节，建议可由几个部分组成：

1.感谢，每人说一句感谢的话，具体到人和事；

2.提出需要解决的问题；

3.每个成员轮流发表自己对问题的看法和意见；

4.意见达成一致并记录下来；

5.以一个小游戏或者点心水果时间结束会议。

写在最后

其实生活中仪式感可以无处不在，它可作为我们表达内心情感最直接的方式，能让孩子更专注地投入到情境当中，感受生活的美好和乐趣。

一些看似不起眼的小小的仪式，能让孩子们内心被幸福感填满。所以，务必要找到属于自己的家庭仪式感，并固化它，美化它，坚持并让它成为家庭的一种传统！

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