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事实证明:留这种发型的初中女生,普遍缺乏自信,父母千万别大意

发布日期:2024-08-22 03:22:34编辑:网络收集

孩子高度统一的发型背后,是不同年代有不同年代的审美,还是背后有什么隐情?

“鲶鱼须”PK“光明顶”,到底孰美?孰丑?

最近,一位中学老师分享的视频,引起了网友们的热议。视频中,该老师晒出了学校女生们齐刷刷的“鲶鱼须”发型。

此视频一经发出,便勾起了众多网友对自己青春时光的怀念。他们纷纷在视频下方留言,分享自己的感受和回忆,甚至还有网友晒出了自己那个年代颇有代表性的发型。

比如,下面这位网友留言说:“当初的我们还不是一样?”随之还附上了自己自己上学时,全班女生们整齐划一的齐刘海发型

再比如下面这个网友留言说:“别笑他们了,这是我们。”并且毫不客气的附上了自己学生时代与一众同学的“炸裂”发型。

说实话,作为一名85后妈妈,年轻时的我也是烫过“锡纸烫”,剪过“燕尾头”的,并且当年的自己,也认为自己的发型超美超潮流。

不过,现在的我,每次跟亲朋好友一起忆青春的时候,都不好意思跟人说自己曾经留过那种“辣眼睛”的发型,因为真的害怕被起哄或调侃。

都说潮流是个轮回,美的东西早晚会再度被人们发现、欣赏和追求。然而,与此同时,那些看似不美的东西也似乎在时尚的舞台上不断轮回。

就像90后的爆炸头,00后的齐刘海,现在出生的“鲶鱼须”……

孩子高度统一的发型背后,是不同年代有不同年代的审美,还是背后有什么隐情?

01 “鲶鱼须”为何备受初中女生追捧?

作为成年人,我们都知道,每个女生都拥有独特的面部轮廓和性质,一个固定的发型绝不适合所有的女生,就像一件衣服,其款式和风格虽然独特,但不同的人穿上会展现出不同的效果。

通过观看视频及网友们的留言,我们不难发现,许多初中女生其实并不适合“鲶鱼须”这一发型。

然而,令人惊讶的是,这种发型在初中生群体中却备受追捧。究其原因,其实并不复杂,主要可以归结为以下三点:

第一:获得满足感和认同感

心理专家普遍认为:青春期是个体心理发展的重要阶段,青春期的孩子这一阶段渴望展现自我、追求个性。

服装、发型作为个人形象的重要组成部分,是初中生表达自我、彰显个性的重要途径。

就像90后的女生认为“爆炸头”很个性一样,现在的初中生认为“鲶鱼须”发型更个性,也更能吸引他人的注意,彰显出自己的与众不同,从而获得认同感和满足感。

第二:跟风选择

初中女生,正处于对外界信息高度敏感、充满好奇和探索欲望的年龄阶段,他们更容易受到社交媒体和网络上流行趋势的影响。

现如今,人们只要是做了一件与众不同的事,都喜欢随手晒到社交媒体或者网络上,进而引发众多网友的分享和讨论,营造出一种“大家都在这么做”的氛围。

在这种氛围的影响下,初中女生们可能会觉得如果自己不留这种发型,就会显得不合群或被排斥。因此,她们就跟风留了这一发型。

第三:“鲶鱼须”独特的魅力

大家仔细观察就会发现,无论是00后的齐刘海,还是90后的爆炸头,亦或是现在的鲶鱼须,都具有一个统一的特点。

那就是它们都能够遮住额头,或者颧骨,即修饰脸型,使脸部看起来更小,更幼态。

近年来,人们的审美观,尤其是对女生脸部的审美观,趋向于“尖且小”,即网络上所谓的“锥子脸”。

所以,由此看来,很多女生之所以选择留“鲶鱼须”发型,也有很大的可能是因为这种发型设计,符合初中女生对美丽和个性的追求。

02 初中女生 留“鲶鱼须”发型,缺乏自信?

在视频下方的众多留言中,还有一类留言获得了众多网友的点赞和回复,即清一色“鲶鱼须”中的“光明顶”家长的回复。

比如,下面两位家长,一位留言说“我家的一直‘光明顶’(无刘海马尾)”,另一位留言说:“我家的一直是无刘海马尾~”

整齐划一的“鲶鱼须”&普通无比的“光明顶”,到底哪个更美?

没想到网友们竟然一边倒的支持起了“光明顶”,甚至还有网友还留言说:“视频这些留的看着好邋遢的感觉”“这才是正确的发型,阳光大气。”

不过在众多留言中,禾禾妈还发现有一条留言,引发了众多网友的讨论和支持。

这位网友说:“一般不好看不自信的都是鲶鱼须,不信你上街去观察一下女学生,长得好看的,都是大大方方的高马尾,特别自信阳光!

这条留言不仅获得了一千多位网友的点赞,还获得了一众网友的留言支持,比如有网友在上面网友的留言下回复说:“非常有道理,内心懦弱,没有信心的孩子都会从某种方式掩饰自己。

说实话,看到以上留言的时候,我还真的去我们小区附近的初中校门口仔细观察了下,没想到事实真的像上面那位网友说的一样,那些长得好看的初中生,普遍都扎着大大方方的无刘海高马尾,显得特别的自信阳光。

【最后写给父母的话】

写这篇文章,并非意在争论“鲶鱼须”与“光明顶”发型的审美优劣。

而是希望透过初中女生发型选择的现象,提醒各位家长关注孩子“价值观与自我认知”的培育。

因为我相信那些敢于坚持做自己,不随大流留“鲶鱼须”发型的初中女生们,背后大多是站着一双优秀的父母的!

因为这些女生的自信并非一蹴而就的,而是背后有着深厚的家庭教育的支撑。她们的父母可能从小就注重培养女儿的自我认知和价值观。

让他们明白,每个人都是独一无二的,美丑并不在于发型,而在于内心的阳光和自信,必须要去迎合他人的审美标准。

这些明智的家长深知,真正的教育并非简单的模仿与复制,而是引导孩子发现自我、认识自我,并鼓励他们勇敢地展现自己的个性与风采。

他们教会孩子,自信不是别人的赞美或贬低轻易能影响的,而是源于对自己内在价值的认可与尊重。

作为家长,我们应当向这些优秀的家长学习,从小培养孩子的正确价值观和自我认知。

这样,我们才能为孩子的成长提供坚实的后盾,让她们在青春的舞台上熠熠生辉,自信而独立,勇敢地追求自己的梦想,活出真我风采。

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