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吴京、黄磊、陆毅共享同款育儿经,邓超却没学到!

发布日期:2024-06-24 09:46:11编辑:网络收集

都说,父母的格局,决定了孩子的格局。

一个优秀的孩子背后,一定站着一对优秀的父母,是他们用言传身教,做了孩子们的榜样,用最真诚的陪伴,做了孩子们的引路人,用他们最无私的爱,做了孩子们的成长的垫脚石。

一流的父母做榜样,二流的父母做教练,三流的父母做保姆。

说起明星育儿,除了妈妈们能给孩子们无微不至的爱,当然要提到这三位爸爸:吴京、陆毅和黄磊。大多数人都认为邓超却out了!

01吴京有效陪伴,战狼式育儿

我们都知道吴京是一个硬汉,他希望自己的孩子将来也是一个铮铮铁骨的汉子,所以她的育儿方式堪称战狼式。

吴京拍戏比较多,但是只要有时间陪儿子,他都是全身心的投入,儿子还小的时候,他把无所谓和吴老二当做他的冲锋枪,孩子的手是扳机,孩子的身子就是枪,突突突的让儿子笑个够。

看起来是把儿子当玩具玩,实际上,这让父亲与儿子之间的亲子关系联系的更加紧密,父亲温暖的大手有力的大手端起孩子,让他感受到温暖,感受到爱,知道父亲是在跟他一起玩游戏。

吴京要求儿子自己能做的事自己做,从小就锻炼他们的独立自主的能力,上街去买菜,他们让儿子自己支付,自己把能够提得动的菜提回家。家里做饭的时候,要剥一些蒜,孩子能动手就让他去剥蒜,上学的时候,坚决不帮提书包,一定要自己提包,有事情坚决不包办代替,带他去乡下玩的时候,还要他当过卖瓜的小农民……

不过两个儿子,都十分好动,吴京为了满足他们的好奇心,就用纸片做了刀和剑,三个人在一起玩的不亦乐乎,吴京自己也仿佛就是童年中的小孩。

吴京的这种有效陪伴,真正参与到孩子的活动当中,让孩子感受到大人与孩子是心心相通的,用一颗童心和孩子交往,与孩子共同参与活动,拉近与孩子的距离,和他们零距离的接触,这种真诚的陪伴,才会让孩子感觉父亲是他最亲密的人,最值得信赖的人。

特别是疫情期间,吴京宅在家里陪孩子,并不像有的父母那样,自己玩手机,玩游戏,任由孩子自己追追打打跑跑闹闹,吴京却是实实在在的和孩子玩在一起。

当孩子们说想要去动物园看大象,可是疫情期间不能满足孩子们的需求,于是吴京就自己拿被子顶在自己身上,一只手伸在前面坐大象的鼻子,然后像一只蛆一样蠕动,无所谓微笑的全身都发颤,好像真看到了动物园的大象出来了,吴老二则说爸爸是只蛆,一只好肥的蛆!

孩子们说要看恐龙,吴京正把自己藏在被子里,做成恐龙的样子,和两个孩子玩耍,让孩子仿佛进了博物馆。

吴京为了更有效的陪伴孩子,可真够拼,把自己硬汉的形象,铁人的人设都给崩塌了。

最长情的告白是陪伴,可我却觉得对于孩子的陪伴,一定是要有效,是高质量的,并不是坐在那守着他们,不磕着不碰着就够了。

而是必须参与其中,做他们当中的一份子,和他们平起平坐,也变成一个老小孩。

02

很多人都知道黄磊的女儿黄多多是个多才多艺的孩子,优雅自信,非常自律。

女儿小时候喜欢摸乐器,他就从女儿的兴趣出发,让女儿学习乐器;女儿经常喜欢摆弄摄影器材,他们就让他学习摄影,提高他的审美能力;黄磊是个有名的大厨,在他的潜移默化下,女儿的动手能力也非常的强,女儿会做饭,会做早点,还说的一口流利的英语,甚至还到巴黎走秀。这么优秀的黄多多,还是一个非常懂得关心体贴别人的孩子。

女儿小时候读书一回到家,就是把学校发生的事情讲给他听,他就是当一个非常合格的倾听者,只不过有时候会给予一定的引导而已。

有一次女儿看了电影回来,一直说窗外站着一只长颈鹿,而且描绘的有形有色的,他觉得这是女儿在发挥一种想象力,他就跟着女儿开始表演,女儿说长颈鹿在吃树叶,他就说那个叶子好绿啊,配合女儿表演。

正因为做了一个善于倾听的听众,女儿有什么心事都会跟爸爸交流,也觉得爸爸是自己的知音,所以亲子关系特别的融洽。

在与黄磊的那种倾听式教育有非常大的关系,从小他们都不会说,只会孩子,你应该这样,不应该那样,而是倾听孩子的呼声,孩子觉得她想怎么样,只要孩子说的合理,他们就采纳孩子的意见。

《爸爸去哪儿》节目中,贝贝想要多多的小狗,黄磊却说,这个小狗是多多姐姐的,你想要小狗就要去跟多多姐姐商量。

在黄磊的思想观念里,他从未把女儿当成孩子,她是一个有思想的人,她有她的想法、她的人生。他们之间是彼此独立的个体,他不把自己的一直强加于她。

哪怕是一条小狗,也要征得女儿的同意,他不会替女儿做主。

女儿长大了,耳朵上打耳钉,染成了黄头发,遭到别人的质疑,可是黄磊却认为女儿这样打扮自己,自有自己的理由,而且她是去参加节目的时候这样做,他还是支持女儿这样做的。

黄磊十分尊重女儿,他倾听式的育儿方式,正是有效陪伴的一个分支。

陆毅对自己的两个小棉袄,那可是倍加呵护。

女儿贝练琴时,陆毅不但是坐在旁边一起看,还自己亲自参与到练琴当中,要唱歌的时候唱歌,要弹琴的时候跟着弹琴,他亲自参与其中,乐在其中,乐此不彼。

女儿在上网课学习,他坐在旁边,也拿着一份试卷,认真的答题,那样子好像他也正在上学一样,他的亲自参与和女儿一起做同样一件事情,甚至来个比赛,这种参与式的育儿方式,也是有效陪伴的一个分支。

前不久,孙俪在朋友圈吐槽:

辅导孩子做作业来不得半点马虎,更不能包办代替,哪怕是帮着抄题也不行,因为这是孩子的自己的“工作”,任何人不得越厨代庖,这样会让孩子产生一种依赖心理,懒惰心理,更重要的是父母的这种言传身教会影响到他一辈子,总想着要别人代劳,自己不劳而获,影响人生成长。

当时这也可以看出邓超在教育孩子时,自己没有耐心,而且这种陪伴完全是无效的,甚至是有害的。

5月8日,孙俪忙着看剧本,要邓超陪孩子睡觉,半个小时后,两个孩子拿着枕头来找孙俪,而邓超却自己先行睡着了。

邓超看似也在陪伴孩子,可是孩子们在做什么,他完全不参与,也完全不介入,最后孩子们把他哄睡了,这种陪伴不要又何妨?

吴京,黄磊,陆毅共修一条育儿经:有效是陪伴让孩子越来越优秀,而邓超却Out了,如果没有娘娘把关,等等和花花可就要被他耽搁了!

愿天下父母拿出十二分的真诚有效地陪伴孩子长大!

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