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如果国家放开生育政策,你还会再生吗?生还是不生,这是个问题

发布日期:2024-06-24 09:56:42编辑:网络收集

近日,人大代表黄细花提出,建议取消生育限制,全面放开生育政策。

自从2016年1月1日国家放开二胎政策以来,全国新出生人口并没有明显上升趋势。

中国已经步入老龄化社会,国家放开二胎政策,但似乎并没有带来二胎生育的狂潮,人们对于生儿育女,越来越理性化。

如果国家完全放开生育政策,生或是不生,每个人都会有不同的选择。

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我感觉我就是这个类型。生一个已经要了老娘半条命,我生我养我伺候,白天晚上连轴转,亲妈婆婆都帮不上忙,老公也只忙着顾工作,再生一个,我实在是扛不住。

一个孩子就挺好,把孩子照顾好了,教育好了,全身心扑在一个宝宝身上,等孩子大了,自己也可以重启自己的一份小事业,总比一个接一个生,望不到头的累强。

我想像我这样的妈妈大有人在。女人的价值不仅体现在家庭上,生娃前明明就是职业女强人,为了娃洗手作羹汤,甘心当黄脸婆,该为家庭付出的,都付出了。

等娃大一些,重返职场,接着当女强人,继续自己的职业生涯,留一半精力给家庭,留一半精力给事业,也挺好。

如果一直生下去,像我们这种责任感强的妈妈,既舍不得不管孩子,又舍不得自己的事业,肯定会觉得特别累,特别崩溃,因此,我坚决不生二胎。

比如黄磊、孙莉,佟大为、关悦,蔡少芬、张晋。这三个家庭不差钱,夫妻感情好,孩子有人照顾,所以,他们每家现在都是三个孩子。

像我的一个朋友,她老公年薪挺高,她自己开一个小公司,平时上下班时间自由,家里婆婆又帮忙带孩子,她在去年生了二胎。

前两天她和我说,如果生育政策真的全面放开,她和她老公还会再生一个,多子多福,等她们夫妻年龄大了,一大家子热热闹闹的挺好。

像我朋友这样的家庭,如果全面放开生育政策,她很大可能还会再多生一个,条件允许,又喜欢孩子,多生一个也无防。

我想如果真的放开生育政策,这部分人是最高兴的了。上世纪九十年代宋丹丹和黄宏演的小品《超生游击队》,就是反映有些人不生儿子不罢休,死也要生个儿子出来的现实情况。

宋丹丹饰演的孕妇四年生了三个女儿,但在婆婆和丈夫的压力下,她东躲西藏,非要再生个儿子出来,从而闹出了一系列的笑话。

艺术来源于生活,高于生活。现在某些人的心里,依然还是有重男轻女思想,如果生育政策放开,这部分人一定会一直生下去,直到生出儿子为止。

对于有这种思想的人,我想说女人不是生育机器,随着社会的进步,男女都一样,重男轻女思想真的要摒弃了。

我的表姐就说,如果放开生育政策,她已经有了一儿一女了,她不会刻意地去再要孩子。但是如果不小心怀上了,肯定不会像以前没放开政策那样打掉,有了就会生下来,好好地抚养。

电视剧《金婚》中的文丽,在连生了三个女儿后,本来不想再生了,又意外怀孕,本来想打掉,但还是一拖再拖,怕伤身体,最后还是生了下来,是个男孩,给文丽和丈夫佟志一个大大的惊喜,因为文丽一直想要个儿子。

文丽之所以可以生四胎,因为那个时候生育政策就是放开的,生几个都随自己。

我的一个好友,在二胎政策放开前意外怀孕了,她只能忍痛打掉了孩子。结果半年后,二胎政策放开,她惋惜的和我说,要是打掉的那个孩子是在二胎政策之后有的,那就一定会生下来了。

因此,对于这种生不生随缘类型的家庭,放开生育政策后,如果怀孕了,大部分是都会把孩子生下来的。

记得一次沙溢在节目中有人问他,这么喜欢女孩,为什么不让胡可再生个女儿?沙溢回答说,你怎么知道下一个一定是女儿?要再是个儿子呢?

确实是这样,有了儿子,想要闺女,如果生下来如愿是个闺女还好,如果再是儿子,那压力就大了。

这个压力一是指经济压力,二是指心理压力,就是养孩子是费心费力的活儿,要付出很大的心血和时间。

沙溢和胡可,都是演员,家庭条件没问题,也想要个女儿,如果生下来是女儿皆大欢喜,如愿以偿,如果再生个男孩,那么,再次受苦受累,两个人就会觉得已经有两个男孩了,再受这个罪,何必呢?

所以沙溢说虽然他喜欢女儿,但也不敢再生了。

因此,已经有儿子的家庭,想要女儿,但也会纠结如果再生了儿子,可怎么办。

6、总体上来说,随着社会的进步和养娃成本的提高,信奉“多子多福”的中国人在生孩子的观点上,越来越理性,也越来越从实际出发了。

像我奶奶那辈人,那时候我国还没实行计划生育政策,生育政策是完全放开的,我奶奶一共生了六个孩子,五个男孩,一个闺女,那时候穷得都吃不上饭了,还想生。

我清楚的记得,我奶奶说生完第六个孩子,也就是我姑姑后,她还想再生个女孩,好给我姑姑作伴,毕竟前五个都是男孩,只有我姑姑一个女孩。结果后来一直就生不出来了。

那个时候,我的叔叔和姑姑都吃不饱,穿不暖,每天忍饥挨饿,幸福指数非常低,后来我爸包括我叔叔和姑姑们都有胃病,就是因为那时候吃不上饭,饥一顿,饱一顿,把胃都吃坏了。

孩子多,我爷爷奶奶根本顾不上这么多孩子,只要孩子活着就好,根本考虑不了孩子幸不幸福,开不开心。

现在就不一样了,讲究优生优育,讲究幸福指数的高低,大家在生宝宝的时候,大部分都是会量力而行,会考虑养孩子的成本,也会考虑孩子生活质量。

养一个孩子要面对很多压力,医疗、教育、房子、车子等等,还要考虑家里的生活质量,现代人的思维,不会像我奶奶那一辈那样,只管生,至于养得怎么样,就听天由命了。

因此,我认为,如果真的放开了生育政策,大家也一定会理性的、全面权衡自己小家庭的情况,根据自己的实际,来决定到底生几个孩子。

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