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孩子教育多早都不算早,多万都不算晚!

发布日期:2024-07-24 13:21:54编辑:秩名


一个网名叫uimt的朋友因为爱孩子,怕耽误孩子的前程甚至打算将孩子送人,但是最终他走进了一个阳光明媚的世界。uimt在我的论坛发了个帖子,转贴在这里,不是为了炫耀,而是希望有更多人因此真正理解早教,意识到早教的重要性,并在教育孩子时自我发现,找到一些更好的方法,使亲子之间的交流变得更加充满了趣味。
 
记得有天跟桃之源在msn上聊起早教的话题,我们都不能不痛心地感叹:确实还是有不少父母并没有意识到早教的重要性,更没有理解早教的真正含义。我经常为看着他们这样贻误宝宝最佳的发展时期而感到痛心,但又无能为力。很多时候,我放下手头的工作在我的博客和论坛回复帖子,其实没有特别的动力,仅仅就是想要让更多的人明白uimt帖子里提到的那两句话:“养孩子信专家更要信自己”、“教育孩子多早都不嫌早,多晚都会出成效”。
 
所幸我周围的朋友在我的影响下都对早教很重视,我确信他们的孩子将来会比琛琛发展得更好,因为他们无需像我当年那样只知道一味地跟着感觉走,他们有更多的育儿知识来充填自己的头脑,因此,他们注定比我少走很多弯路。
 
我在这里祝福天下所有的父母,希望他们都拥有一个健康聪明的宝宝,更希望他们尽早行动起来,让宝宝拥有更加快乐的明天。
 
uimt:
 
好久就想在这向林姐道声谢谢,只因忙于查看以往的贴子(跟贴的时间较晚),最近一有空又扎进林姐的书里,急于充电,以至这段发自肺腑的话今天才写出来。没生孩子之前,也读过一些关于早教的书,如《发现母亲》、《卡尔威特的教育》、《斯特娜的自然教育》等,明白了早教会出成效,憧憬着一天这些教育理念在自己的孩子身上创造奇迹。可当孩子生下来后,一切都乱了章法,身体的虚弱、育儿的困惑、无人帮助的无奈,甚至因无人照看孩子而一再延长产假。那时还读了刘洁的《赢在起点》,说实话,这本书对我没起多少作用,相反,它给了我更多更多的不自信,因为我的孩子输在了起点,社会地位、经济条件我都不优越,甚至身体虚弱得都无法照顾孩子,再联想到老卡尔威特的博学、斯特娜的多才,我放弃了,很痛苦的放弃了。面对儿子那张英俊的脸,竟然冒出了这么个想法:我不能就这么把孩子耽误了,如果有条件相当好的家庭愿意收养,我要把他送人。
 
对一个刚刚做妈妈的人,这是一个多么心酸而又无奈的想法啊。可它是真实的!在这种徘徊不前充满悔恨的心态下,儿子一天天长大,而我的无能为力更助长了我的悔恨,可以说我的心情相当糟糕。直到有一天看到了林姐的那篇《教育的目的是有一天可以不教》,它使我眼前一亮,特别是林姐说的“养孩子信专家更要信自己”、“教育孩子多早都不嫌早,多晚都会出成效”,是啊,与其在这自悲自怜,不如尽快行动起来。而林姐的教育理念又是那么容易操作,它不需要我的全天陪伴,也不需要我音乐、美术、外语是全才,学会变通与辐射,学会玩耍与启发,学会以点带面,这就够了。
 
在以后的日子里,与孩子玩沙时,我会跟孩子制作各种模型,会跟他讲沙漠,会给他讲骆驼,也会与他在沙漠里种树,让它长成绿洲。秋天跟孩子上花园里,我会让他观察各种树的种子,我也开始鼓励他收集垃圾。我会提醒孩子观察不同小河里的水的颜色,看天空中的白云,天空中飞过的大雁,听百灵鸟的叫声。我不希望孩子的性格象我一样内向,我会特别注意鼓励孩子跟陌生人打招呼,并告诉他别人很喜欢他,一旦与别的孩子发生纠纷,我不会介入,我会以欣赏的眼光看着孩子自己解决。晚上在家里的时间,我会跟孩子玩踩字的游戏,也会在一旁静静的观察孩子投入地玩各种玩具,而不再自以为是的干涉。我不会再象以往一样大惊小怪的阻止他接触电器,而是在保证安全的前提下指导他正确的使用方法,儿子也常常出呼我的意料,他能找到不关冰箱的门把灯熄灭的方法,VCD上他能不按OPEN键也能让小抽屉带着碟子进去。我也会在地图前很随意的告诉他我国第一大岛是台湾岛,第二大岛是海南岛,第三大岛是我的儿子聪明捣(崇明岛),他会美得连蹦加跳。睡觉前的阅读成为习惯,亲子的互动性也被调动起来,而不再是单纯的读故事。还有通过选择高品质的图书,使我的审美水平也有了提高。生活中的点点滴滴都成为教育的素材,可以说在林姐的帮助下,我的育儿不再无奈和枯燥,我与儿子一起快乐地成长。
 
有一次,我抱着孩子,他手里拿的玩具掉在地上,我帮他拾起来,他大喊大叫,把玩具扔了,又拾又扔,我很困惑,这是他喜欢的玩具啊!问他是不是不要了,他还是大叫,我忽然间明白了,儿子是要自己拾,平时他能做的事都是要自己来的。果然,我把他放下,他自己拾起来,就不再闹了。通过这件事我问自己:这样的事能请教专家吗?专家能帮我解决吗?还是林姐说的对,只要用心,自己就是最好的育儿专家。最近一段时间,儿子脸上的笑容多了,我思想上的包袱甩掉了。林姐给了我自信,可以说给了我一个崭新的人生。我相信,在林姐的教育理念支持下,我会给儿子一个永不抹灭的快乐童年,这也将会成为他一生的幸福源泉。

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