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二胎又是女儿 生男生女不一样

发布日期：2025-01-17 12:39:43编辑：秩名

二胎我又生了个女儿 生男生女不一样
 
　　二胎政策开放后，朵妈周围渐渐多了很多“二胎党”，但是，大家怀二胎的动机都不太一样。
 
　　有的人纯粹是因为喜欢孩子，想多生一个。怀着这样的初衷生二胎的朋友，多半会有一个非常轻松的孕期，而且孩子出生后，家人欢喜，孩子在充满爱的家庭健康成长，一家人其乐融融。
 
　　但更多人，是为了多生一个儿子或女儿凑成“好”字而生二胎。如此一来，追二胎就变成了一场胆战心惊的赌博。（关注微信订阅号：朵妈亲子时光，聊聊亲子育儿那些事）
 
　　用很多人的话来说：“如果你一胎生的是男孩，二胎压力才没那么大!否则你一胎是女儿，二胎也是女儿，那简直是噩梦!”
 
　　这不，噩梦前不久发生在朵妈一个朋友身上了。
 
 
　　1、别让你的孩子，因性别而受到不公平对待
 
　　朋友一胎是女儿，迫于公婆的压力，二胎想追生一个儿子。
 
　　怀二胎前，她问了N个妈妈有关生男宝的经验方法，备孕期间吃了N多所谓的助孕妇怀上男宝的食物，学习了网上N个有关生男宝的经验贴……
 
　　战战兢兢地怀上二胎后，她的肚子出奇的尖，侧面看就像个柠檬那样，这肯定是男宝了吧!
 
　　在一家人的期待下，上个月她终于生下二宝了!结果却出乎他们的预料，二胎仍然是个女儿。
 
　　这下子，全家人迎接二胎宝宝的气氛一下子就变了。
 
　　朋友说：“婆婆知道二女儿的性别后，脸那叫一个黑啊!好像我犯了天大的错一样，抱也不抱一下二女儿。
 
　　在产房里来回晃悠了几圈，她就像丢了魂一样无精打采，最后她找个借口离开产房回家了。
 
　　婆婆不在，我终于忍不住大哭了起来，其实我并不没有那么期待二胎一定要生个儿子，我只是觉得婆婆前后的变化这么大，太可怕了，敢情女孩就不是我们家的血脉了吗?为什么女儿才刚刚来到这个世界，就要受到这样的冷遇?
 
　　我决定加倍疼爱二女儿，把家人对她缺失的那份爱，都补回来。孩子没有爷爷奶奶疼，一点都不可怕，重要的是有爹妈疼着宠着，孩子就不会因此而缺爱。
 
　　希望我的两个女儿以后都能明白一点，身为女子，一样可以活得很高贵，很精彩!”
 
　　朋友最后一句话说得特别扎心!是的，女儿一样可以活得很高贵，很精彩!我们这么多过得很精彩的妈妈，不就是活生生的例子吗?凭什么只有儿子才配得到家人的爱?
 
　　2、不执着于生男生女，我们才会过得更幸福
 
　　生男生女，这个话题一直是很多妈妈关注的焦点。甚至还有很多人，因为拼死也要生个儿子，使一家人的生活都陷入了困境。
 
　　贵州一对夫妻，15年来生了8个女儿。43岁的妻子生下第八个女儿时，丈夫因工伤双手被截肢了。
 
　　当被问“为什么一定要生个儿子”的时候，这位妈妈回答：“我老公是独子，两位老人苦了一辈子，我们如果没有给他们生个孙子，他们出门都抬不起头来。因为在我们老家，男孩才是继承香火的人。”
 
　　2016年12月，广东省湛江市一位只有31岁的年轻妈妈，因家庭贫困，加上连续生了5个女儿而患上严重的抑郁症，病发时挥刀砍向5个女儿，致4死1伤。
 
　　也许有人要谴责新闻中的父母，为什么生活如此困顿了，还要这么固执地想要生个儿子?
 
　　其实，他们都是这个时代重男轻女的牺牲品和见证者，我们无法想象的是，重男轻女的思想，不知道影响了多少原本幸福生活的人。
 
　　如果他们不执着于一定要生个男孩子，放下这个执念，把女儿也当做宝贝一样来养，他们也可以过得很幸福，不是吗?
 
　　3、养儿才能防老?教育不好，养条龙都没用
 
　　“生了儿子，你才能防老!生的都是女儿，你注定老无所依!”
 
　　“重男轻女”的家庭，都认为只有儿子才能传宗接代，只有儿子才能养老防老，然而这种思想越是根深蒂固，越容易养出一个“不靠谱”的儿子。
 
　　但凡只要父母偏袒儿子，势必会造成这个孩子以我为中心、不懂得体谅他人、缺乏同理心、养成骄纵的性格。
 
　　这种爱，是有差别的爱，只会让儿子更依赖父母，即使长大了，也只是生理年龄长大了，本质上却是一个没有成长的“巨婴”，一遇有任何需求了，第一反应不是自己想办法满足，而是回家啃爹妈。
 
　　类似的新闻，多不胜数，一搜一大摞：
 
　　8旬老人3套房全过户儿子，如今后悔：“骗子!5年没见我!”
 
　　儿子转走母亲107万，母亲报警，网友评论：生了个不孝子!
 
　　最不孝的儿子：暴打母亲，声称执行家法
 
　　……
 
　　对此，朵妈只想说，生儿子不一定防老，没教育好的话，就算你生的是龙也没有用!
 
　　4、不管是男是女，请让孩子，只因爱而生
 
　　美国著名诗人沃尔特·惠特曼说过：“全世界的母亲多么的相象!她们的心始终一样。每一个母亲都有一颗极为纯真的赤子之心。”
 
　　不管我们生的是男是女，只有给予他们和其他兄弟姐妹之间平等的爱，才能让他们成为最好的自己!对一个孩子来说，最好的成长环境，就是和兄弟姐妹平起平坐，平等地享受父母的关爱和教育。因为，这才是一个自然、宽松、有爱的成长环境。（关注微信订阅号：朵妈亲子时光，聊聊亲子育儿那些事）
 
　　否则，我们越是偏袒一个孩子，ta越有可能长成一个白眼狼;我们越是冷漠得对待一个孩子，ta越有可能长成一个永远缺爱，永远没有安全感的孩子。
 
　　但愿每个孩子都是因爱而生，无关性别，来到世界上，都能获得来自父母的最纯净、最无私的爱!

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